Finding the centre

What brings out the best in you…the “you” who has a life that everyone desires , the one who foresees success… the one who balances between passion and work, the one who never acts outrageously, the one who knows his limits, the one who truly loves, the one who has no enemies, the one who doesn’t care what people say, the one who is not affected by jealousy or greed…the one who is never tempted…the one who is satisfied, and the one who has an unquestionable belief in God.

This isn’t about the wannabe “SUPER-HEROES” …this is about being human, being reasonable and most of all being good. Maybe it seems unrealistic but this is something I desire. There is always some point in life when we realize a few things about ourselves. We have known it all this while but it’s hard to accept, we rather prefer acting cool and proud of what we are.  And when we stop kidding ourselves, we get surprised that our near ones love us, despite the monsters we are. There is so much we need to do…not about the world but about ourselves…We need to get OVER the small things we keep cribbing about and take up higher causes in life. We need to find the CENTRE and weave a REAL life around it. We need to get the BEST out of us, but of course if we don’t believe we already are.

hate you!

I hate the way you do your hair...but i love believing you do it for me,

I hate the way you always turn up late...but i love waiting when i know its YOU,
I hate the way you come up with lies...but i love that you always get caught,
I hate the way you shock me with your SLEEP...but i love the way we laugh at it again n again,
I hate your snooker gang(so much)...but i love it when you miss a game for me,
I hate the way you go mad during examz...but i love the way you try to help me during mine,
I hate all your silly friends...but i love the way you love them all,
I hate the way you laugh at the silliest of jokes...but i love laughing together,
I hate the way you never plan an outing...but i love the way we unexpectedly have SO MUCH FUN,
I hate the way you get scared like a gal on RIDES...but i love those crazy faces you make,
I hate the way you always are hungry,but i love learning to cook sumthing new each time for you,
I hate the way you suggest weird things while shopping...but i love the way i always buy them,
I hate the way you fight with me...but i love the way we always make-up,no matter what ;)
I hate the way you always have an occasion to booze...but i love the way you take care of me when i am high,
I hate your SILENCE...but i love your silent gaze,
I hate the way you always hide your feelings,but i love the way you understand things that i dont say,
I hate the way i hate you,but i love the way i love you!

i really DO!

expressing enough?

One of the best feelings in this world is to make someone feel special…but how many of us really do so? Already counting the number of “times” n “reasons” you have done something like that? We are all different in things such as intellect or liking…expression of love n care, is no exception. While some people are really expressive, others are not. I can put it this way that few are not blessed with the divine gift of “expression”… these are the ones who would either keep waiting for the right time n scenario…n it would actually never click to them. These guys would feel lethargic or uneasy or would simply find it unnecessary doing stuff BEYOND regular . It’s very hard to believe but yes, they simply CANNOT do what you would normally expect them to.

You missed on a very important word here.”Expect”. Draws us to the BLESSED ones who would love to spark up each moment…who would not hesitate doing risky or out of the box things for themselves or others? Might sound great! But they expect the same in return. They have every right to. But sometimes n to some ppl(specially to the lethargic ones)this non-routine is  routine…They feel things are being overdone or  OVERrated!!No point of expectations being met.

Quite a funny situation, which gets even funnier as ppl from these ENTIRELY different worlds are drawn to each other. As per the obvious, the quiet, reserved ones are surprised of the drama and UNNECESSARY pain the loud, energized one is taking…further they don’t really “feel” anything special,,and the latter whose expectations are not being met feels that the quiet one is not only dumb, but also INHUMAN. Then what? Does he stop expressing or does the other one pick up the habit? Neither happens! Expectations come to an end as the expressive one realizes that he does it only for the LOVE of it…n also in any case he’s better at it than the other. Why let a moment spoil just cz of some expectations? the inexpressive one realizes the worth of being expressive and starts respecting it. He no more thinks it’s a waste and enjoys every moment that is routine or not-routine :D

When I said that making someone “feel” special is one of the most wonderful things in the world, I just forgot to say that each one has a different way! Life is too long to remain obsessed with ourselves forever… “Curiosity” is what draws us to people and the beauty of every relationship lies in the “differences” people share. The key is to stop EXPECTING…and do what you are good at!