expressing enough?

One of the best feelings in this world is to make someone feel special…but how many of us really do so? Already counting the number of “times” n “reasons” you have done something like that? We are all different in things such as intellect or liking…expression of love n care, is no exception. While some people are really expressive, others are not. I can put it this way that few are not blessed with the divine gift of “expression”… these are the ones who would either keep waiting for the right time n scenario…n it would actually never click to them. These guys would feel lethargic or uneasy or would simply find it unnecessary doing stuff BEYOND regular . It’s very hard to believe but yes, they simply CANNOT do what you would normally expect them to.

You missed on a very important word here.”Expect”. Draws us to the BLESSED ones who would love to spark up each moment…who would not hesitate doing risky or out of the box things for themselves or others? Might sound great! But they expect the same in return. They have every right to. But sometimes n to some ppl(specially to the lethargic ones)this non-routine is  routine…They feel things are being overdone or  OVERrated!!No point of expectations being met.

Quite a funny situation, which gets even funnier as ppl from these ENTIRELY different worlds are drawn to each other. As per the obvious, the quiet, reserved ones are surprised of the drama and UNNECESSARY pain the loud, energized one is taking…further they don’t really “feel” anything special,,and the latter whose expectations are not being met feels that the quiet one is not only dumb, but also INHUMAN. Then what? Does he stop expressing or does the other one pick up the habit? Neither happens! Expectations come to an end as the expressive one realizes that he does it only for the LOVE of it…n also in any case he’s better at it than the other. Why let a moment spoil just cz of some expectations? the inexpressive one realizes the worth of being expressive and starts respecting it. He no more thinks it’s a waste and enjoys every moment that is routine or not-routine :D

When I said that making someone “feel” special is one of the most wonderful things in the world, I just forgot to say that each one has a different way! Life is too long to remain obsessed with ourselves forever… “Curiosity” is what draws us to people and the beauty of every relationship lies in the “differences” people share. The key is to stop EXPECTING…and do what you are good at!